One “holiday freeze” is over. Many people, reluctant to break up the family amid the hustle and bustle of the holiday season, postpone a relationship breakup until the new year. Amid resolutions to change and optimism about new beginnings, January traditionally sees a spike in both divorce filings and online dating sign-ups. “Out with the old, in with the new” thinking is everywhere. The decision to break up ranges from no-brainer to gut-wrenching and can, in some cases, take